I have one too. .my husband constantly complains that it became a habit. Everything was bad. Even Curtain, Windows, tiles, doors, food, dress. I had named him as pulambal when we were newlyweds. It was horrible during the tough times we went through. But since a year I've been praying specifically for each of his habits. Anger, criticism and forgiving forgetting.
Yesterday he commented the house was too small. I smiled as I do now, but then he added himself, that we should be grateful as there are so many without a house. I smiled again
At night we had a rift thanks to ants on our bed. He was bad and shouted and made it a big thing. It was 11.45 I was too tired to even respond. He was just mad that I tried to dust away that ant and not look under the mattress or change sheets. I zipped my mouth and joined him changing sheets, pillow covers. Girls were stunned seeing dad shout but continued playing. 12.30 we were in bed with a bed time story. He came in suddenly and said sorry for all that I said, what you did was wrong. I was surprised and beamed.
This morning as I prayed my 10 points for him, these two things came to my mind. God had indeed transformed him. And of course me too. What a wonderful God we serve. I can't help but thank God for his mercies.
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