The world gives a different picture of the relationship between mother in law and daughter in law. But that relationship can be loving and caring as well like how we are with our mothers. I'm trying to tell what God taught me over these years. This was the biggest struggle when we started married girls prayer in infy around 8 years back. But as we kept in prayers God started changing our perspectives of the way we deal with our mil
1. Truly speaking, every human being has an area of weakness however Godly we are. We need to submit ourself along with in laws into God's hands consistently in prayers first thing in the morning daily.
2. Need to ask God to consistently to heal broken hearts, hurts, wounds, past bitter memories, past incidents, any fear of being hurt, any fear of being judged, etc. (As applicable to your situation) both in us and in laws lives. He will erase bitterness and heal us emotionally and make us strong. He will teach us to forgive and forget easily as we keep praying. I and my family have experienced transformation and God taught me a lot through Sheeba Rajasingh and many others in fshp. Today I should boast in the Lord God has me in perfect peace in my relationships. Verses below spoke to me over and over again. God taught me to humble, keep showing love and keep praying over every situation consistently. Every phase when there is a storm, I used to write down and pray for wisdom to handle the tough times.
1 Corinthians 13 1
Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth.
3. Always try to please God in every aspect. Never try/expect to get recognition from any person in the world.
4. Practically if you notice, Our own parents make mistakes. Some times We lose temper and we may fight, argue or hurt them. But then we patch up easily and start loving them easily. It happens automatically many a times and we don't think or remember it much. Same love if we ask from God, he is ready to pour out on us so that we can show the agape love to our in laws as well. You will start taking extra miles like how we usually do for our parents to make them feel that we love them, care for them and we Honor them. Its not easy. Only God can give the heart to us individually that we need to take care and Honor them always despite their and our weaknesses.
Nothing is impossible with God. He can heal and mend relationships which is hard in our eyes. He can make us emotionally strong than ever before.
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