Showing posts with label Quit. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Quit. Show all posts

Wednesday, May 23, 2018

God's faithfulness

Hi everyone,  By God’s grace, we are happily completed our 12 years of togetherness and entering into 13th year.

I would like to testimony His marvellous grace and guidance with the below few miracles happened in our path of life.
May 24,2006 We got married. We were (not exactly we, I have to mean just ‘l’ here) waiting for 4 long years to get child from His hand. Even though it’s painful and stressful, God hold me and hug me in His mightiest hand so That phase gave me an opportunity to come close to Him and taught me lots of valuable lessons (patience, unconditional love, how to love the people who really hate us etc;). Then God promised me of double blessings. Don’t think like me to get twin babies here. God fulfilled His promise in His own way. Means I delivered my first one  on Feb 2011 and in the same year I conceived my second one. As He promised, He fulfilled His will in our life.

By Feb,2015, my husband got a severe heart attack and was in ICU. Believe me, By His grace and support, I was  not even worried even a single second. Full time I was with my hubby and in hospital room we hold each other’s hand every day and night and prayed. I testify now that he cured only because of His wounds. This miracle helps both of us to close even near to God and taste His love.

By Nov 2016, my husband quit his job to takeover full time family care as my little son shown some development delays. With our God’s guidance and my husband’s care, He is now well doing in His studies. Please keep him in your prayers that His life should lead many people to taste our God’s love.
Even now  we are waiting for God’s will and guidance in my husband's career but believe me we are not worrying about this now. Because till now His grace is sufficient for my family and we believe Him that it will be sufficient throughout our life.

Kindly hold us in your prayers to lead our life in His presence and up to His will. 😀

Wednesday, April 4, 2018

Job after 3 years break

Testimony: I quit Infosys on June 2014 ... I never knew why did i quit ... All i felt was God wants me to move out... There were many asking me, whether I will be into full time ministry... I thought the same.. But everyday,God was teaching me you are a full time minister where ever you are especially ay your home.

At the same time, I got conceived and My husband was saying like this is the time for rest and after Dorit was born, i was mostly in my mom's place.... It was because of my husband who was insisting me that they need you now... So after coming to my in laws house i was visiting my mom often. There were so many issues at home that day especially in my brother's family and God was consoling mom because of my daughter. After the death of my brother, I felt like more responsibility. My husband was in full support to my parents and my in laws too asked me to be with them. So, I started praying and looking out for jobs as I felt time to move into corporate again. I was searching for a job for one year but none i get selected. I was too depressed.

But then an option came, which I didn't accept for a week as the location is out of chennai and I didn't tell my husband too. But when I told him, he said if it is from God, don't reject it.. just go and attend.. of God is paving you a way, He will take care. Then I replied them, i will be there for interview and i attended. When I was with infy, i came out as SSE and had 3 years break... So everyone was asking about the break and they were offering a role less than SSE and less salary.

But when I came here i was told it was a team management role and I no need tech skill... By God's grace i cleared 2 round... Seriously, i didn't know any answers for the questions they have asked but God helped me to answer in the own way relating with my family life. At the end of the intervirw, i was told it was for PM role and I told them I have no experience but the reply i got was we believe in you. Praise God. I don't deserve that but if God wants to do something, nothing can stop Him. I would be moving to Madurai for a period of time.

Got so much promises and confirmation from Him. I would be moving with my mom and daughter.. i thought it would be a break for my mom too from all the thoughts she has now..Keep us in your prayers....For all the arrangements there.. Glory be to Him alone

Monday, May 22, 2017

Struggles after quitting job

When I was in last few months of pregnancy, I decided to quit due to work pressure. I quit Infosys in May 2014, thinking of changing my career as a lecturer, as I had completed my M.E. degree before joining Infosys. My in-laws were quite happy about it, as in their family history, nobody worked after having baby. But, my parents’ and my siblings were unhappy about the decision, for all were working. My husband insisted me to stay at home and take care of our baby atleast until he is atleast one year old. I obeyed him and didn’t try for any job till 2015. Later with my husband’s help, I started looking for job in various colleges, but didn’t get any call. In the same year, my husband who is a Civil Engineer lost his job, as there were layoffs, after Mugalivakkam incident. Since his field was down at Chennai, for around 4 months, he didn’t get any job in Chennai. We didn’t have peace at home, as there was a financial crisis. But, God lead us through. I praise God for it. In April 2015, he got a job in Muscat (Oman) with a reasonable pay to lead our life. This was according to God’s will. After, he left to Muscat, I was in Chennai, with my son and in-laws. I became so depressed, for I didn’t have a job and felt so helpless. I could only send applications to colleges through post or e-mail, as I had to take care of my son. I used to cry at night and lament at God’s feet for hours, after making my child sleep. I had pressures from my parents, for I am jobless and idle. Whenever I go to my parents’ place, they started giving me money, as I do not have a job to earn it. This made me still more depressed, and I stopped going to my parent’s place too. In August 2017, by God’s grace, I applied for PhD on the last day for submission of Application. I started studying for the entrance exam. Since, it was around 9 years after completed my M.E degree, it was so very difficult to cope with it. Also, I didn’t have enough support from my in-laws too. Already I started showing my inability and depression to my kid (as my husband is not around), yelling at him, for simple things. One day, when I was in the kitchen, cooking for the day, and there was no one around, I felt so helpless and crying talking to God, about the exam, which seemed to be the only hope for me. When I was crying, Holy Spirit talked to me, in a mild voice that he has this for me and I will get through it. I was so relieved, as I got confirmation from God. He made my husband to come Chennai, on a medical emergency. But he was alright, to our surprise. Though, he was here, I could not study well, as my son was sticking to me. On the day of entrance exam, the exam was very tough; I know the answer for only around 5 questions. But I attended all the questions in prayer. Since, I got the confirmation from God, I was confident that I will get into. To my surprise, especially my Father-in-law (who was against going for a job leaving my child), started praying (in family prayer) for I should get through. Nobody, except me, know about God’s promise. When my results came out, both my in-laws were very happy. I joined college in January 2017 (as a full time Research scholar). Now, my in-laws are taking care of my son, full-time. God has changed all the situations upside down in his right time. Initially, I sometime argue with my MIL, especially. But God has made me to understand their situation better, and submit my way to God. They are sacrificing their personal works for my son and me. And God has helped me to get up early, and complete cooking before I leave to college. Though, it is difficult, during exam time, God has made my MIL to take care of household works for me additionally. I praise God for He has done everything in HIS time. I praise God for them and their health too. Still, my husband is in Muscat. We are praying for God’s will to be done in our life. Thanks for reading through this long testimony!! Praise be to God! Amen!!

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