Stammering, arthritis - Gods healing

Praise points
My son's stammering is greatly improved 90%and started speaking new words,no speech therapy.purely God's grace.😊😊

My sister has hardly any pain these days due to Rheumatoid arthritis her blood reports have improved too😊😊

My husband and I have better relationship and his health is improving too,he has gained 2kg.😊😊 Thanks thiru for all ur prayers for our relationship,will write a separate testimony on that.

Prayer points:
My son to get out of stammering completely .
His should grow bold and confident and should go to school for LKG.he still hates the word school n cries so bad wen I tell him that he ll go to school from June.or else tells me that I shoud b present too.
My sis's(age 27) marriage,even after the blood reports turn out
-ve we can't hide her past treatment n health .
My husband's complete healing and God to protect him from all the recent workplace politics.He never had any issues at office and was at peace but lately things are going upside down.

Surprise tips

I do that regularly with small surprises to make them feel loved.
Make a dish they like and tell that I made it for you. Spend time exclusively with them to say that you are important. Hear them out . Go out with them, go for a long drive, or for a walk. At times instead of being a mom, wife, in-law I try to become a friend and ask to share. Many times we bombard our loved ones with our emotions or problems but don't ask them the problems they go thru'. I also tell them that they are God's gift to me and special, that makes them feel loved. And pray for their problems and give them the assurance that we are praying. When they make mistakes give them room to correct, even if something they have done has failed, encourage. These are few I d

Sometimes even saved money to get a nice gift for them

Doing a pedicure for the tired feet that works for the family, brings so much of joy to them

Pleasing husband - a trap

Just wanted to share something that happened in my life.
Note: Each one is different and situation is also different. We need wisdom to discern it.

When I did things to my husband, my hub was always in complaint mode. Nothing made him happy. I took it on myself to keep him happy. Doing things that would please him. What finally happened was it drove me crazy. He was always sad. Much later came to know that he was stuck in self pity.  But reflected as nothing was any good for him. It was a vicious circle. I was deep stuck in despair and depression. I felt far away from the lord, coz I was trying to do all on my own and I was failing.
Praise God, God rescued me out of that pit and after I was out, lot of prayer lot of months passed to where we can say, we are out of that circle.

We now can read our minds. God has changed both of us so much.we are not trying to please each other or keep other happy, but as we please God and come closer to Him, He draws us close to Himself and to each other husband and wife. The triangle.

Relationship with In-laws restored.

Basically, I have got very loving parents-in-law. Both are doing some kind of ministries now. I never felt, that am away from my family (after marriage), until I left for delivery to my parent’s place. When I was pregnant, my mother-in-law used to get up early and cook for me before I leave to office at 7.15 AM. I had work pressure at office and I used to be very tired, due to pregnancy. Both my in-laws and my husband, made sure that I have everything that I need. My husband used to peel pomegranate every day and keep it in the box, daily and will make my lunch bag ready. My Father-in-law will make sure that I have my favorite sweets at home. After delivering my baby boy, there started misunderstandings between my parents’ family and my in-laws family. Though, there were mistakes from both sides, it brought misunderstanding between me and my husband too. Whenever he calls up, it would end up in fight. I got frustrated and felt very depressed. And my relationship with my heavenly father also got deteriorated. It showed some physical problems as well. Eight months after delivery, when I came to Chennai (my in-law’s place), the situation become still more worsened. I was not able to tolerate the mistakes they did/do, sometimes I comment in front of them, whenever I get a chance. Though it pricked me sometimes, I could not control my tongue. I couldn’t live a peaceful life. After doing all these, I will cry in my lonely time with God. Slowly, God made me to realize the mistakes that I did and helped me to forgive whatever they did. Praise the Lord!! Though, I may get reminded of, God helped to understand their situations and made me learn how to lead through. Both my in-laws used to tell something good about me to others, atleast when I am around. This also, made me think well about them. Though, I have not told the goodness about them, many a times, but I love to do it now. I believe this is one of the qualities to build up a good relationship. I recommended this to my Mom too, a tip to treat her daughter-in-law. God is helping me, to hear what they say and obey to it. It was quite hard, difficult initially, as it is God who said, there is no turning back. God expects to obey elders, for we are children of God. Even now, God is teaching me, to teach my son, to give respect/obey to what they say and to show his love to them. My father-in-law is so attached to my son and so is my son to both my in-laws. Sometimes, I tried to overrule what they say. But, what they said had only happened. So, I stated leaving it to God. I have noted many times, He wants us to respect elders. If I find something is not acceptable, God is helping me to leave it in prayer. And God takes over. There are some issues still, but I believe that God is at work. He will resolve everything. I Praise God, for he took over my life and brought back the peace. I pray that I should not destroy the peace, but to multiply it in folds that we have now. Thanks for reading!! Praise the Lord!! Amen!