Wednesday, June 14, 2017

Advice for cheated wife

Priya....Prayers for your friend.... My suggestion
1.It will try to help your friend to go close to God n back to her relationship with her husband.

2. How to handle her emotions during this suspicious time is very challenging phase... There she need to cast her care about her husband on Jesus. She Need someone to listen to her n pray with her as a moral or spiritual n emotional support

3. Her motive should be not to catch him by mistake instead help him to come out of this trap

4. My view your friend may be stuck full time with 3 gals rather spend time with her husband which is his strong need for someone there to spend time with.... Pls check with your friend y becos  Sometimes girls after their birth their time schedule always round around with their kids ... Knowingly or unknowingly ignore their relationship with husband.... Which may lead to friction in bonding....

5. Last her husband alone is not done all or every mistake.... Call girls (Big trap).... In proverb 5 th n 7 th chapter explain about them clearly from God perspective... May God will heal her broken heart n help her to come out n live happy life with him.... Thanks...

Spending time with spouse

My testimony regarding this... Being a house wife and having only one child I found it hard to spend quality time with my husband even with my son...Why becos I thought doing my responsibility like cooking, cleaning,  take care of family members n taking care of their dress , food n health n care for their physical need may satisfy them.... Which they felt I cared  for their need but not loved.... After attending some seminars I come to know about 5 love languages which is really helps me to understand my husband n son's love language ( Quality time) n to address it in a way which they feel loved.... Below are 5 love language:
1. Words of appreciation
2. Quality time
3. Acts of service
4. Touch
5. Gifts.
If you are interested to know your Love language n your spouse pls Google it 5 love language test for spouse. Which will help our better relationship....

Bad relationship -healing

I know an elderly couple from our Church. Theirs was love marriage. They have 2 daughters - both working and one got married. That uncle started to have relationship with another lady (with 3 kids) in the same Church - it started by telephonic conversations and then they had physical contacts as well often. This illegal relationship was known to few ladies in the Church and was communicated to his wife indirectly. But that aunty trusted him so much that she scolded the ladies who told her about him to her.

Later, she started finding something wrong with her husband - like hiding his cell phone, taking his phone everywhere even to bathroom. If asked, he would give some silly reasons. Then she started having much doubt on him. So she used to fight with him. He gets irritated on being questioned. One day, he left home and stayed somewhere (in another house) in the same area. She used to call him but he never picked up. He even set up something to have the call forwarded whenever she calls. It was like this.

Then her elder daughter suggested about going to a private detective agency to check on him. Initially that aunty accepted but they prayed well and later she was afraid going to them  as that might result in some other trouble as these are ladies. She said to her daughter that they would pray and the LORD would help them. She didn't communicate this to anyone - even to his relatives. That aunty and her daughter started praying earnestly for this - to help him come out of whatever bondage he was in (they didn't know by then, whom he had relationship with). They fasted and prayed. They waited for 3 months. He came back after 1 month of going out but still the couple didn't speak to each other.

That aunty trusted in the LORD and kept praying with tears everyday. The LORD honored their faith especially that Aunty's faith.

That uncle was much troubled by that lady whom he had relationship with and finally he started to hide himself from that lady, ignoring her phone calls, etc. Then that lady got this Aunty's number and started calling her saying that she wanted to talk to this aunty. This aunty didn't talk to her (by this time, she got to know the relationship with this lady) and avoided her.. that lady kept threatening this uncle that she would spoil his name in the Church, family, etc by telling about his illegal relationship.

Finally, that uncle explained that aunty about what all happened. That aunty was so loving and forgiving that she accepted him. Then she picked up that lady's call and scolded her that she knew all about their relationship and also to better avoid calling them. She also told her that she would even convey this to her husband.

Then she stopped calling them. Even when called, they stopped picking up. They moved to a different place now and are living together. Now that uncle has started praying fervently confessing his sins..

That elder daughter is close to me and shared this with me earlier. She accepted to have it shared here anonymously.

Our GOD is so awesome and when we put our trust in HIM, HE does mighty things.

Stranded without purse

Testimony time

Took the kids out to zoo yesterday as it's school holidays and we've annual pass. Booked the cab and took d mobile. Asked my daughter to keep my wallet in the bag. (My mistake and lesson learnt.) Reached zoo and searched my wallet to get the zoo pass.

To my shock it was not in. I didn't chk b4 starting. Furious at my daughter but still God gave me patience n helped me understand my fault and we prayed right in front of the entrance. Didn't pray b4 starting😒 and for days too. But God is still faithful.

Met all our needs. We were in want of nothing as He is our Shepherd Psa 121:1. Reached back home safe after a day loaded with fun n memories. Though I forgot/ignore to seek Him God helped me n never let  a me down. I was too barrassed to seek His hand for my need rather His face..

Praise God... 2 Tim 2:13
if we are faithless, he remains faithful, for he cannot disown himself.

Lost and found 7k

Testimony: When I went to native last week, I had nearly 7000 in a purse and kept inside my travel bag. Before returning I saw the purse.

I did not unpack my luggage. Morning when I was in office my hubby called and said that the purse is missing and that he has searched every place possible. He started shouting. I told him to check thoroughly but he wasn't ready to hear. I was very worried and prayed. My mom too searched the rooms and it wasn't there.As soon as i came back and checked it was inside the same bag inside a zip which my hubby did not check.Praise God

developer to solution architect

Small Testimony of mine,...After seven years of working as a developer, I resigned from my job in 2016 following the birth of my first child...